Sheriff offers tips to prevent bullies
MANISTIQUE – Bullying, when one child picks on another repeatedly, is an increasing problem in schools. Bullying can be physical, verbal or social. According to Schoolcraft County Sheriff Grant Harris, there are ways to ensure each child is safe from bullying at school, such as promoting an atmosphere in which problems can be worked out constructively, rather than violently.
If your child is being bullied, your child is the bully or your child observes bullying, these tips may help:
When your child is bullied:
Teach your child to respond by:
Looking the bully in the eye.
Standing tall and staying calm in a difficult situation.
Teach your child how to say in a firm voice:
I don’t like what you are doing.
Please do not talk to me like that.
Why would you say that?
Teach your child when and how to ask for help.
Encourage your child to make friends with other children.
Support activities that interest your child.
Alert school officials to the problems and work with them on solutions.
Make sure an adult who knows about the bullying can watch out for your child’s safety and well being when you cannot be there.
When your child is the bully:
Be sure your child knows that bullying is never OK.
Set firm and consistent limits on your child’s aggressive behavior.
Be a positive role model. Show children they can get what they want without teasing, threatening or hurting someone.
Use effective, non-physical discipline, such as loss of privileges.
Develop practical solutions with the school principal, teachers, counselors, and parents of the children your child has bullied.
When your child is a bystander:
Tell your child not to cheer on or even quietly watch bullying.
Encourage your child to tell a trusted adult about the bullying.
Help your child support other children who may be bullied. Encourage your child to include these children in activities.
Encourage your child to join with others in telling bullies to stop.